Unlocking Your Quintessential Self: The Path to Authentic Power

Mary Jane.

Not the shoes, but the woman who owned the small business where Iโ€™d been hired to help in an assistant role.

Mary Jane liked things done one way, and one way only.

Her way or it was wrong.

Never mind that the result is the same. She was a sock, shoe, sock, shoe sort of person. Those that are sock, sock, shoe, shoe โ€” well, thatโ€™s just wrong.

The entire conference table was set up for a project. She showed me how to do it (her way).

It didnโ€™t work in my brain; in fact, I found it illogical.

So I did it my way.

As a micro manager, she came in to hoverโ€ฆ and I got busted! I had to switch back to her way.

But then I switched back.

This environment was oppressive.

Itโ€™s an environment I did not and do not thrive in.

This experience was at a time in my life when I was pushing my way out of my cocoon โ€” and Mary Jane kept shoving me back in to cook a bit longer to her liking. Trouble was I was ready to emergeโ€ฆ And I was finding myself in the wrong room!

This experience, am...

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๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต

Iโ€™m sure youโ€™ve heard that expression.

Some breakdowns are massive. Obvious. Ridiculously painful. And usually feel never-ending.ย 

Some, however, are almost unrecognizable. If we are not tuned in, in fact, we may miss it altogether and โ€œjustโ€ chalk it up to a bad day.

Some breakdowns feel like youโ€™re standing in the middle of the room looking at your life as it is piled around you โ€” a heap of junk thatโ€™s all broken apart and ugly.

Some breakdowns feel like ugh, I am too lazy to give a damn about anything today.

Whichever breakdown it is, it can be comforting to know your breakthrough is soooo close! You canโ€™t push, pull, prod your way there faster. You have to go through the tunnel first.ย 

Did you know that as the butterfly struggles to break free from the cocoon, that if you helped and opened it up just a bit for her, she would die? Her struggle is part of her breakthrough.

The same holds true for you.

Someone can lovingly hold space for your struggle, can reassure you that yo...

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Quintessential Woman Mystery

๐—œโ€™๐˜ƒ๐—ฒย ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ปย ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ดย ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ตย ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒย ๐—บ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ย ๐—ผ๐—ณย ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒย ๐—ค๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—นย ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒย ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€.

Iโ€™ve found She requires space. She requires respect. She requires time โ€” not necessarily hours and hours, but time as in Iโ€™m not in a hurry to have Her come for a visit.

After spending a good year dancing with Her, itโ€™s time for me to include YOU.

๐˜ˆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆย ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถย ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜บย ๐˜ต๐˜ฐย ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ตย ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆย ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ดย ๐˜๐˜ฆ๐˜ณย ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ตย ๐˜ช๐˜ดย ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏย ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ?

If yes, then listen up and say ๐™”๐™š๐™จ, ๐™„ ๐™–๐™ข ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ฎ.

I am ready to play with the mysteriousness of Her.

I am ready to meet this aspect of myself โ€” and believe me, if you are remotely ready, Sheโ€™s been playing and teasing. Perhaps youโ€™ve just not recognized it as such.

Letโ€™s do this. And letโ€™s do this together!

๐— ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†, ๐—”๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—น ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿด I will be hosting a free event for you to Meet Her.

Meet โ€œHerโ€ ~ a Sacred experience to meet your Quintessential Self

Itโ€™s free.

Itโ€™s time.

Itโ€™s relevant.

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