Decisions That Define Us: 5 Keys to Aligned Choices

I didn’t know it, but the decision I made would change my life.

I saw the announcement about an event in a state I loved and I didn’t hesitate or give it a second thought. I said yes, clicked through and invested.

No second thoughts. No excuses. No what ifs or yeah buts. 

This is the ease of making choices from a place of Knowing. 

The event was like Going Home. It was so right I found myself wondering why I had diverged from this path? Yet I didn’t even ask myself this question in this manner. It was still cloudy, but my contentment was familiar and I relished it.

The result of the decision ultimately created a very real struggle — and many questions surfaced:

What does this mean (to me)?

What do I DO about it?

If I do go back, (change my mind) what will people think?

I honored this struggle and gave myself 3 months (!) before I could actually accept it inside my body. 

Here are five tips for making any decisions, particularly difficult ones;

Clarify your values:  Begin by understanding your core values. Does the decision align with your beliefs? Making choices that resonate with your values brings clarity.  

Trust Your Intuition: Your intuition, often referred to as your inner voice or gut feeling, can be a powerful guide. Tune in and listen to what your instincts are telling you about the decision.  

Embrace Flexibility: Remember that decisions aren't set in stone. If something isn't working as expected, be open to adjusting your course. Flexibility aligns with your openness to learning and growth. 

Start Small: If a decision feels overwhelming, break it down into smaller steps.  

Align with Your Inner Goddess: Connect with your Inner Goddess, the Quintessential Woman within you. Trust her wisdom and let her guide you toward decisions that harmonize with your values and aspirations. 

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